Divorce and family
Most time when people get divorce the family gets break up, but it doesn't have to be like that You can still keep you family together and be good friend with your ex wife or husband. Every family reacts different to divorce since every family is different and have different chemistry between the members of the family. So let's see how ease it up for the kids
Helping Kids Manage Their Feelings
In the good scenario your kids will talk about how they feeling,
and they will answer you when you ask them how they feel about the situation.
But in some case the kids wont talk to you or share they feeling for you,
in that case try to explain the situation to them in a mature way they will understand it better than you can imagine, also try to do this as a parent both of parents and not just one of you.
Most often kids experience a sense of loss if family and may blame you or the other parent or both for what is going on in their life.
If you can get you kids to share with you what there are falling or if you can get any understanding from theme go to professional help.
Its perfectly nature for your children to have emotional feeling and feel confused, your job as a parent is to do every thing you can to help them.
You kids may try to struggle your divorce and act to prevent the divorce and its important for you to stay cool down and not get frustrated by that.
Remember you can't tell someone how to fill specially for your kids, try to understand and being supportive about it,
as you kid will grow up and will look at the situation in a much more mature way.